Too Little Icing: The Value of Focused Service

A naked wedding cake? Whose idea was that? The first time I heard about this, I was utterly confused. Now I understand. This is usually a cake with a very thin layer of icing—so thin one barely detects its presence. It makes perfect sense for those who don’t love icing but still want their cake. When done well, the simplicity can be quite beautiful. But only to those who don’t like the icing.

As a Christian, I often feel that life is a giant cake over which I’m trying to spread too little icing.

The needs of this world far exceed my ability to meet them. And yet, to say no to anything where help is needed feels like a failure to heed God’s call to “love one another” (see 1 John 4:11). So I spread and spread and spread, hoping to stretch the portion I’ve been given into enough to cover the entire cake. But unlike a naked wedding cake, there is never anything beautiful or sweet about my efforts when I spread myself too thin.

I say yes to too many Bible studies, committees, and fundraising campaigns. I let myself be inundated by an infinite list of requests for help. All good and worthy things, but are they the part of the cake I’m meant to cover?

Is it possible to spread myself so thin that there’s no proof I was even there? Has my time, energy, or offering been so faint, it makes no difference at all?

In Ecclesiastes, Solomon tells us, “Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might…” (Ecclesiastes 9:10).

Our hearts are broken over the murder of the unborn, the trafficking of humans in modern day slavery, and growing numbers of mental illnesses ravaging our families and communities. We hurt for the abused, the hungry, the addicted, the sick, the grieving, and the lost.

In terms of a cake, it’s a mighty big pastry for one person to ice.

But Solomon tells us whatever our hand finds to do. He doesn’t say heart. Our hearts can be, and usually are, burdened for many things all at once, but our hands can perform only one task at a time.

The Book of Nehemiah is a good example of not trying to ice the whole cake. His is the story of rebuilding of the walls of Jerusalem. Nehemiah 3 is a detailed list of who did what. Each family or group focused on a particular section of the wall or gates. Each had a specific task to perform in a designated place. They didn’t run about taking a swing at a nail here and stacking a stone there just because the entire city was in ruins. They worked with the single-minded purpose of rebuilding what was right before them, and the result was a noticeable impact. In fact, Nehemiah tells us they completed the work in fifty-two days (Nehemiah 6:15). For a work crew of mostly unskilled laborers, that’s no small accomplishment.

Like these Israelites, we are surrounded by much destruction and devastation. And like the Israelites, now is not the time to spread our icing too thin.

Nor is it the time to give up.

Now is the time and you are the one to make a difference in whatever your hand finds to do.

May I suggest that mountain of cake we are trying to ice has been not just allowed, but encouraged by Satan? He heaps on the guilt every time we say no. He understands how easily we are weakened by stretching ourselves over everything that is in our hearts to do. The guilt that keeps us from saying no is another layer of cake for our finite supply of icing.

Soon we’ll experience weariness—the kind that breeds hopelessness and often depression. The result is an apathy that renders us unable or unwilling to keep trying.

Yes, our world is spinning into increasingly distressing times. The needs pile higher every day.

Now is not the time to dabble in a bit of everything—to spread ourselves too thin. Now is the time to sharpen our arrow, perfect our aim, and send it sailing straight into Satan’s wicked plans.

David had five stones in his pouch when he faced the giant Goliath. But he focused on only one (see 1 Samuel 17:40). Imagine how different that battle might have looked if he’d attempted to take down his giant by throwing all five at once. Both his aim and his strength would have been weakened.

What is in front of you now? What needs can you meet from right where you are? Put your hands to work there, and then work as unto the Lord, and not for men.

The things we may accomplish by our single-minded focus on the one task at hand will exceed the thin difference we may make when we work on a multitude.

Be faithful to serve the Lord with all your heart by working with all your might at whatever work your hands find to do.

 

Now I’d love to hear from you. Why do you think this is hard for us to do?

 

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  1. Joe Altebaumer says:

    Awesome words and it is good to focus and make an impact over scattering too thin and not really making a difference! Focus on the task at hand and be where your feet are!

    • laltebaumer says:

      Sometimes a difficult thing to do when technology sells us on the idea we can be everywhere and help in every way. But being where I feet are means to tend to repairing the wall right where we are. I think we’ll know a greater sense of peace when we embrace this.

  2. Liane says:

    Good point, Lori. I think many people are either motivated by the pressure of trying to do it all or bear guilt for not joining that race. The world wants us to multi-task, but the cost is often doing nothing well. Thank you for the reminder.

    • laltebaumer says:

      Good morning Liane! You make a great point. The result of thinking we can multi task is often that we do nothing at all. God has really been working on me lately about staying in my lane instead of trying to run in everybody else’s. Thanks for sharing.

  3. Erin Terrell says:

    I love the distinction you made between whatever our hands have to do, and our heart. Of course we have a heart for ALL the things and we put so much pressure on ourselves to take care of all of them. This is such a liberating message! And so appropriate for my life. Thank you for being obedient and listening to the Lord and sharing what you’ve heard❤

    • laltebaumer says:

      Reading that verse and having the implications sink in was liberating for me as well. You are right. We ask God to break our hearts for what breaks His, and then we take on the burden of believing it’s all ours to fix. But Jesus set the example of staying focused on the task at hand. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and may you be blessed in whatever your hand finds to do today!

  4. Andrew Budek-Schmeisser says:

    Like skimpy icing on the cake
    these days are getting thin;
    I do whatever it may take,
    but know now I won’t win.
    It’s all gone past hope of repair,
    the tumours have just spread to far
    for all but palliative care,
    but I won’t quit the war.
    Some say I’m just too dumb to die, some say I’m just too mean,
    some will not tell what they imply
    for they are none too keen
    to face apocalyptic wrath,
    or, worse, my braying donkey-laugh.

    • laltebaumer says:

      Good morning Andrew! I’ve missed seeing your lyrical responses… and your brave honesty. May God bless you with supernatural strength as you continue to be a light in a time when most of of would consider giving up.

  5. Karen DeArmond Gardner says:

    Why is it hard? A friend taught me that not all good things are God things for us. God wanted her to step out of different ministries she was involved in. She didn’t and sadly was asked to leave which caused her to feel rejected which was her hotspot.

    What she learned was that by stepping away, she opened the way for someone else to step up. God also wanted her to cut back so He could bring more opportunities her way. She learned the hard way and shared with our group so we could learn from it and not fall into the same trap.

    Moral of the story: we shouldn’t say yes to everything that comes our way.

    Love this post, you never fail to touch my feels.

    • laltebaumer says:

      What an excellent example of the importance of our obedience. The world is great at applying the guilt that makes us question every decision that doesn’t line up with its “agenda.” Thanks for sharing and for your kind words, Karen.

  6. Gail says:

    I love this message. Every word if it is so true and Durand wisdom in every level. I just love this message. Thank you for putting this out there for us to read and take to heart.